In the Pirke Avot (Wisdom of our Fathers), Rabbi Jacob has said:
"If you are walking lost in wonder,
empty of self, and mindful of Reality,
and suddenly you interrupt this peace to exclaim:
'How beautiful is this tree!
How magnificent this field!'
you forfeit life.
The intrusion of self
and the imposing of judgment
separates you from Reality
and snares you in the net of words.
Be still and know.
Embrace it all in silence." (III:9)
Who knew that exclaiming about an incredible sunset would have that effect? But when you look at the world as ONE unified soul, with all these pieces that are connected to each other that make up that ONE unified soul, it reminds us to be without judgment. To not get lost in our minds and thoughts and JUST BE AT ONE WITH THE ONE.
Breathe into and out the Breath of Life that infuses you with the awe-inspiring Silence of HaShem, the ultimate peace and no-thing-ness of the universe. One day as I was preparing to meditate, I inhaled and thought "breath of God" and let it commingle with my breath, and my essence, then as I exhaled, I thought "Breath of God" with the added breath of our combined energies. I later learned this is similar to the breathing practice of Rabbi Abulafia, a Kaballistic rabbi from the 1500s in Safed. Check it out, it can bring you to ecstasy if done properly.
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Thursday, January 1, 2009
Staying Balanced in a Chaotic World
There is always going to be chaos and unrest in the world around us; it is just the way it is. We can make a choice to get caught up in the tension and the unruliness, and make ourselves "crazy". Or, we can accept the world as it is, making changes where possible, taking action where possible, but maintaining our balance in the process.
Easier said than done! That balance and calm in the eye of the storm is an elusive goal. I teach meditation and stress reduction techniques, and even I find it difficult to stay centered sometimes. When my clients are going through a rough time, how I wish I had a magic wand to wave over them to make it "all better". But, we don't live in Gan Eden anymore, and somehow, we need to make it though the travails of human living.
If you are having a rough time, see if you can get out of your own way for a moment by taking a deep breath, giving yourself a hug, and let the wave pass over you. Do that again. And one more time. The world is still there when you open your eyes, but maybe you feel a little more uplifted.... and don't forget that HaShem is with you every moment.
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Easier said than done! That balance and calm in the eye of the storm is an elusive goal. I teach meditation and stress reduction techniques, and even I find it difficult to stay centered sometimes. When my clients are going through a rough time, how I wish I had a magic wand to wave over them to make it "all better". But, we don't live in Gan Eden anymore, and somehow, we need to make it though the travails of human living.
If you are having a rough time, see if you can get out of your own way for a moment by taking a deep breath, giving yourself a hug, and let the wave pass over you. Do that again. And one more time. The world is still there when you open your eyes, but maybe you feel a little more uplifted.... and don't forget that HaShem is with you every moment.
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The Sacredness of Your Life
What are you thankful for? Even in the midst of pain, can you find the blessing in being alive? It is said that the Creator is breathing us into being every moment. How "yirah" (awesome) is that! That this infinite being wants us to be alive and breathing and contributing to this Creation in our own way. We usually go through each day not really thinking about it, taking for granted the fact we can go to work, prepare and eat meals, tend to our families/friends/selves, etc. It's easy to get caught up in the seemingly mundane, ordinary life we live. But, is it really all that ordinary and mundane when you think about the fact that all of Creation is being willfully breathed into Being, and if the Creator stopped willing us into being, we would be no more?
I may not say the morning blessings exactly the way they are written, but I do awaken each morning, sun streaming into my windows, glad to be alive and wondering what the day will bring. What surprises will come my way? What does the Creator need me to do, how do I need to be, to take me further on my journey towards becoming a better person? When I really pay attention and notice the miracles of life around me, I am feeling blessed and grateful that the Infinite One sees fit to continue to breathe life into me.
The one guarantee in life is death, but we never know exactly when that will occur, so how do you live each day that the Creator has willed you into being?
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I may not say the morning blessings exactly the way they are written, but I do awaken each morning, sun streaming into my windows, glad to be alive and wondering what the day will bring. What surprises will come my way? What does the Creator need me to do, how do I need to be, to take me further on my journey towards becoming a better person? When I really pay attention and notice the miracles of life around me, I am feeling blessed and grateful that the Infinite One sees fit to continue to breathe life into me.
The one guarantee in life is death, but we never know exactly when that will occur, so how do you live each day that the Creator has willed you into being?
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Sing Your Own Song!
Spring is here for us in the Northern Hemisphere. I always think of this change of seasons as the most blatant, in that we are going from the "sleep" of winter into full-blown energy. Listen to the birds' songs getting louder and more prevalent in their quest to mate. See trees and other plants bursting forth with new growth. There is also spring cleaning--of our homes, and ourselves. Pesach is coming soon. All of these events constitute more energy and activity, an awakening.
Rabbi Nachman in Likkutei MoHaRaN I:282 teaches that each person can always revive and reawaken his/her spirits "by searching out and finding your positive points, collecting them together and sifting them out from the impurities within you, this is how melodies are made.... search until you find a little bit of good in yourself... and in just the same way, you must carrying on searching until you find yet another good point. If despite your desire to be happy you feel drawn down, draw strength from happier times gone by. Eventually, joy will return."
This also reminds us to thank HaShem for the blessings in our lives. It's so easy to get caught up in the negative feelings, and I love what R. Nachman says about creating melodies. Each one of us is a special, unique song that HaShem sings as we are breathed into being. Never forget that!
Rabbi Nachman in Likkutei MoHaRaN I:282 teaches that each person can always revive and reawaken his/her spirits "by searching out and finding your positive points, collecting them together and sifting them out from the impurities within you, this is how melodies are made.... search until you find a little bit of good in yourself... and in just the same way, you must carrying on searching until you find yet another good point. If despite your desire to be happy you feel drawn down, draw strength from happier times gone by. Eventually, joy will return."
This also reminds us to thank HaShem for the blessings in our lives. It's so easy to get caught up in the negative feelings, and I love what R. Nachman says about creating melodies. Each one of us is a special, unique song that HaShem sings as we are breathed into being. Never forget that!
Meditation, Jewish Style
I love meditating to Jewish prayers. Sometimes, I pick out a word or two from the prayer to breathe to and meditate upon.
One of my favorites is the from the morning prayer, Elohai neshama shenatata-bi, t'hora hi. God, the Soul you have given me is Pure. I breathe in and out to the word for soul, neshama. The sounds all flow together, the n, the sh, the ma. I like to elongate the breath on the end of the word, so that "ma" is like "maaaaaa".
Then, I might go into the word "Shema" from Shema Yisroel, Adonai Elohenu, Adonai Echad. Listen (hear) Oh Israel, The Lord is our God, The Lord is One. Soul and God and Breath and Creation all swirling around me. I also like the word "Sh'viti" which means God is always before me.
One of my favorites is the from the morning prayer, Elohai neshama shenatata-bi, t'hora hi. God, the Soul you have given me is Pure. I breathe in and out to the word for soul, neshama. The sounds all flow together, the n, the sh, the ma. I like to elongate the breath on the end of the word, so that "ma" is like "maaaaaa".
Then, I might go into the word "Shema" from Shema Yisroel, Adonai Elohenu, Adonai Echad. Listen (hear) Oh Israel, The Lord is our God, The Lord is One. Soul and God and Breath and Creation all swirling around me. I also like the word "Sh'viti" which means God is always before me.
Saying Yes to Ayin
I met alot of stressed out people this week, rushing around, multi-tasking, looking grim-faced and pressured. Is that what our lives are about? I understand people have much on their plates, maybe too much, and perhaps some re-ordering of priorities would help. It's powerful to say NO! It seems more difficult to say NO than to say YES. If I'm ambivalent about my commitment, I tell the person I have to get back to them by a certain time (usually 24 hours).
If you are feeling stressed out, here is a wonderful meditation/breathing exercise that can relieve the stress on your body, mind, and spirit. I call it the "Ayin" breath. Ayin is the 16th letter of the Hebrew alef-bet, a vowel that looks like the letter Y, and is pronounced "ah-yeen" and if it sounds like the word "eye" that is also what it means. When you practice the Ayin breath, because Ayin is a vowel that has no sound, you will notice it is only a breath. What I like about the Ayin meditation is I take the meaning of Ayin, or eye, and after I have meditated, it helps me look at my life with "real eyes" and realize what is true for me, and what is not. It helps me know when to say No or Yes to things.
Sit comfortably and breathe normally, inhaling and exhaling through your nose. Just pay attention to the inhalation and exhalation, feeling the air coming in through your nose and into your body, exhaling any stress you may feel. Do this for a few minutes.
As you are attending to your breath, ask yourself where the breath is coming from....
who is really doing the breathing.....
who is "I'.....
keep asking "who is this "I" who is breathing?
feeling ever more empty and free....
emptying yourself of stress....
opening your heart to HaShem....
the Ayin of the breath.........
energy of the universe coming into you through your breath......
breathing in the energy of ALL......
emptying yourself.........Ayin..........
If you are feeling stressed out, here is a wonderful meditation/breathing exercise that can relieve the stress on your body, mind, and spirit. I call it the "Ayin" breath. Ayin is the 16th letter of the Hebrew alef-bet, a vowel that looks like the letter Y, and is pronounced "ah-yeen" and if it sounds like the word "eye" that is also what it means. When you practice the Ayin breath, because Ayin is a vowel that has no sound, you will notice it is only a breath. What I like about the Ayin meditation is I take the meaning of Ayin, or eye, and after I have meditated, it helps me look at my life with "real eyes" and realize what is true for me, and what is not. It helps me know when to say No or Yes to things.
Sit comfortably and breathe normally, inhaling and exhaling through your nose. Just pay attention to the inhalation and exhalation, feeling the air coming in through your nose and into your body, exhaling any stress you may feel. Do this for a few minutes.
As you are attending to your breath, ask yourself where the breath is coming from....
who is really doing the breathing.....
who is "I'.....
keep asking "who is this "I" who is breathing?
feeling ever more empty and free....
emptying yourself of stress....
opening your heart to HaShem....
the Ayin of the breath.........
energy of the universe coming into you through your breath......
breathing in the energy of ALL......
emptying yourself.........Ayin..........
Stress Redux
The ancient Jewish rabbis who wrote the Talmud had a unique and uncanny understanding of human behavior. They were the earliest psychologists. Over 1500 years ago, they wrote that "three things drain a person's health: worry, travel, and sin" (Gittin, 70a). Travel takes one away from his/her customary surroundings and comforts and injects its own pressures. Sin (missing the mark) has its own, sometimes dire consequences. When we fret over things that are out of our control, we cause ourselves physical, mental and emotional stress that becomes a vicious cycle in our lives.
Physically, blood pressure rises, breathing is shallow, our bodies tighten up and pain can result. This makes it more difficult to eat and sleep well, let alone giving our bodies a restful chance to recoup energy. Emotionally, we are as tightly wound as a spring, rendering our minds incapable of thinking rationally and logically. We might lash out at people who want to help, and we get stuck in a negative mindset that traps us in quicksand.
The trick is to step back and away from the stress we are feeling, in order to find a clearer perspective, give ourselves a chance to regroup, and realize that if we can't change it, we have to accept it. In order to step away, the first, most basic thing we can do is BREATHE! Sit quietly, eyes closed, and let yourself open up, open your lungs, your diaphragm, your belly, as you feel the breath traversing through your cells, muscles, bones. Get out and take a walk. As you take each step, coordinate your breathing to the rhythm of your feet, maybe even saying a word or phrase that helps you to relax. I say "om shalom" and let the words take on a natural cadence in time with my steps.
Your heart rate will slow, your vision will brighten, your chest and shoulders and neck will release. I like to walk up a good incline at a rapid pace to get my heart rate up and my lungs to expand, but you should do what is comfortable and what you are physically able to do. The aim is to cast off the burden of worry you are carrying around, and feel lighter and less stressed about what you can do nothing about (except to take care of yourself!!)
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Physically, blood pressure rises, breathing is shallow, our bodies tighten up and pain can result. This makes it more difficult to eat and sleep well, let alone giving our bodies a restful chance to recoup energy. Emotionally, we are as tightly wound as a spring, rendering our minds incapable of thinking rationally and logically. We might lash out at people who want to help, and we get stuck in a negative mindset that traps us in quicksand.
The trick is to step back and away from the stress we are feeling, in order to find a clearer perspective, give ourselves a chance to regroup, and realize that if we can't change it, we have to accept it. In order to step away, the first, most basic thing we can do is BREATHE! Sit quietly, eyes closed, and let yourself open up, open your lungs, your diaphragm, your belly, as you feel the breath traversing through your cells, muscles, bones. Get out and take a walk. As you take each step, coordinate your breathing to the rhythm of your feet, maybe even saying a word or phrase that helps you to relax. I say "om shalom" and let the words take on a natural cadence in time with my steps.
Your heart rate will slow, your vision will brighten, your chest and shoulders and neck will release. I like to walk up a good incline at a rapid pace to get my heart rate up and my lungs to expand, but you should do what is comfortable and what you are physically able to do. The aim is to cast off the burden of worry you are carrying around, and feel lighter and less stressed about what you can do nothing about (except to take care of yourself!!)
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